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Phil McAuliffe - Humans: Connecting - loneliness - connection - connection mentor - human connection - glasses

1:1 mentoring

Here's the place where you get to have Phil - a global loneliness thought leader who also experiences loneliness - in your corner as a mentor.

You know that he understands the loneliness humans experience and how challenging connection can be.

Phil's insights, wisdom and perspectives will help, serve, challenge and inspire you as you live your life with ease and soul-nourishing connection.


You're worthy of that.


1-on-1 mentoring with Phil is for you, if:

  • you have your Connection Plan from the Connection Starter Course and want Phil's support and accountability to keep you on track; or

  • you simply want to have Phil and his wisdom and insight in your corner.


Phil will listen

Be prepared for Phil to listen to you. Listening is his superpower.

Phil will ask about your loneliness and listen to your response. He'll ask about how you're doing connection with yourself and others.


Phil will be there to support you and keep you accountable as your live your Connection Plan.

Phil creates a safe space for you. It's all confidential. No topic is off limits.

Convenient call times

Phil has call slots available most days. You pick the day and time most convenient for you.

Phil is right here

You'll not be alone. You'll have Phil by your side guiding you every step of the way.

The thoughts and feelings of loneliness require other people to help us feel connected again, but it's tough to ask for help.

You're worthy of receiving that help and support.

You'll have Phil - a fellow human who experiences loneliness and knows a way to feel connected - giving you direct support and accountability.

Have a question?

Phil offers a free 30-minute call*. It's your chance to see how he can best support you and for you to ask him any questions you may have about this service.

*A deposit is required at time of booking. It will be returned to you after the call. The deposit is your initial investment in improving your connections. 

You're putting skin in the game.


You're investing in yourself.


Click here to book your 30-minute call.

Phil's experience

Phil has been where you are. He experiences loneliness and works daily to stay authentically connected. He knows that it's critical to have great people in our corner as we connection.

Phil's been coaching and mentoring since 2012. He creates a safe, loving, and inspired space for you to step into. It's a place where you will feel seen and heard. It's a place where you will feel that you belong.


All you need to do is to step into it, just as you are.

Between calls

The support doesn't end at the end of the call.


Phil will check in with you to see how you're progressing and support you when you encounter challenges when doing connection.


monthly mentoring call

This subscription service is for you if you want to have Phil right by your side in a regular conversation to support you. Think of this service as a monthly check-in and tune-up about how you're prioritising authentic connection in your life.​​

This is also for those who have completed the Connection Starter Course.


You and Phil will have a 60-minute 1:1 call together every month. You'll be supported and challenged as you live your life and navigate all it has to offer. You'll then work on getting you what you've identified that you need in your life.

You'll also see your progress towards feeling connected. We'll regularly assess your feelings of connection according to internationally-recognised and widely used measures.


Details: Subscription service. One call each month. Billed monthly.

Investment: AUD275/month (plus 10% Australian Goods and Services Tax)

How to make it happen: Tap the PayPal link below or click here. You'll receive an email with a link to book your call after payment.

Please note: You will see references to - and receive confirmations from - 'The Lonely Diplomat'. That's the name of this business.

single mentoring call

Phil's here for you and can listen to how you're experiencing connection and loneliness in your life: the joys and the frustrations.


He's here to listen to you. He'll give you his perspective in this single call.


Details: 1x 60-minute call

Investment: AUD300 (plus 10% Australian Goods and Services Tax)

How to make it happen: Tap the button below or click here.

Please note: You will see references to - and receive confirmations from - 'The Lonely Diplomat'. That's the name of Phil's business.

30-minute discovery call

Ask Phil your questions about his services and how his services support you.  ​


Details: Single 30-minute call.

Investment: AUD100 deposit. This will be returned to you after the call.

How to make it happen: Tap the button below or click here.

Please note: You will see references to - and receive confirmations from - 'The Lonely Diplomat'. That's the name of Phil's business.

"Make the call, step into the vulnerability. It'll do you wonders and you will notice the benefits of showing up as your true authentic self very quickly. Phil will encourage you and give you real supportive advice that means a lot to many people out there.
Having Phil as a mentor and support person will only improve your ability to show up as your real self, communicate to yourself and to others in ways that are much more beneficial in life.
He will call you forward, he will call you out, he will support you and he will help shape you into the best version of yourself."

P - Auckland/Tāmaki Makaurau, New Zealand


Do you have a question?

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